My Story: Confessions of a Premature Ejaculator

Hi, I’m Jimmy – I’m the founder of, and a lifelong premature ejaculator.

From my earliest sexual experiences premature ejaculation has caused me untold frustration, embarrassment and heartbreak. Having PE has ended relationships, and for a long time I was too shy to approach women for fear of humiliation in the bedroom.

I’m now happily married to a wife who is understanding about my PE, so the embarrassment and heartbreak factors are no longer an issue. But over the years the frustration has remained as I haven’t felt able to satisfy my wife with prolonged intercourse. Every guy wants to give their wife or girlfriend a real good pounding once in a while, right?

In early 2014 I decided to deal with my premature ejaculation problems once and for all. I was determined to fight PE!

My background is in academic research, so I put my well-honed research skills to good use, investigating the causes of PE and possible treatment options. I trawled the internet, read books and tried out a whole load of tricks and techniques in the bedroom. When it comes to fighting PE, I’ve been there, done that, got the numbing cream.

During that period I discovered techniques and products that significantly improved my staying power in the bedroom. Happily for me (and my wife!) my premature ejaculation is now, for the most part, under control. I still have lapses, and I don’t believe there is a ‘cure’ for PE, but I can regularly make love for as long (or as short) as I want to. That is a HUGE deal for me.

I’ll provide full details of the methods that work for me in a future blog post. But for now, let me put my improvement into perspective with some numbers. During my worst moments I would be lucky to last 15-20 thrusts inside my wife during intercourse – perhaps 20-30 seconds at most. I would keep going way past my orgasm just to make it seem like it was lasting longer.

Now I can usually last for as long as I want, or as long as my wife can handle. The relaxation and freedom that has brought to our lovemaking is priceless. The first time I felt my wife come to a shuddering climax on top of me (while I was still going strong!) is a moment I will never forget.

These aren’t meant as boasts in any way. Just proof that ANYONE can beat premature ejaculation with the right tools and techniques. You just have to want to fight PE!

I started this site to share all the useful information I have collected over this last year or so. When I was doing my research into premature ejaculation it became clear that there was plenty of information out there, but no dedicated resource devoted to fighting PE.

There are literally millions of men out there suffering through the pain and embarrassment of premature ejaculation. If the information I’ve gathered together here can help just a few of them, then the time and effort involved in putting this site together will be well worth it.

Please get in touch with your own stories, tips, tricks and techniques for fighting PE…we’re all in this together!